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Hakuna Matatizo Rafiki!

A blog post about a young actor in Morogoro Tanzania whose Improv troup – a group that works very similarly to the way Augusto Boal’s Theatre of the Oppressed operates – travels to educate about AIDs and it’s prevention.

 

As I count down the days until I leave for Tanzania, I recognize the number of people that will want me to stay in touch while I am overseas. In place of twenty or so e-mails every week to family and friends, I thought it might be easier to start a blog. Hakuna Matata, much like Timon and Pumba explained to us, it means no worries; rafiki means friend in swahili. No Worries Friends, I will keep you all informed of my time in Tanzania! Enjoy

Thursday, November 3, 2011

A Lesson in Selflessness

When we landed in Morogoro, we took a long taxi ride to our homestay, traveling through Morogoro town and down dirt roads as we headed to our homestaty. We came to the big red gate that has become very familiar to us now, and a smiling young man opened the gate for us and welcomed us in. As our taxi drove through the front gate, Makho simply pointed and said, “That’s Frank, he is a local volunteer with YCI.” Little did I know, I would have the pleasure of meeting and working with an amazing person that has yet to put himself before any other individual.
Our second day here, we found a ripe coconut in our yard and Frank peeled it, cracked it open, and grated the nut out so that we could taste “real tanzanian nazi/coconut”
From the moment we arrived, Frank Kilongola (AKA Frankie or Frank Star) has been a priceless support to us in our time here in Morogoro. From helping us build a bed (so I didn’t have to stay on the floor) to ensuring we had phone credit and his phone number on speed dial, he made sure we had everything we needed to get settled in our new home, lifestyle, environment, community, workplace and country. Sacrificing his time to help us get orientated to Morogoro and life in Tanzania, Frankie took us for a guided tour of the city, providing us with helpful hints and tricks along the way to ensure our health and safety.
Myself and Frank in town running errands for a training session
Frank is the type of person that constantly offers help and aid even when most would not see an opportunity to lend a hand. Casually walking from home to work, he notices you have two bags and he has none, he will politely ask to help and share the task by taking a bag from your hands. This may sound trivial, and even as I type I feel like something is lost transferring my anecdote to page but you get a true sense of how selfless an individual he is. Everyone is equal in his eyes and I have yet to experience anything different.
Frank has been volunteering with YCI for seven months now and still recognizes his commitment by coming in everyday. Not only does he work for us on a volunteer basis but he also commits to a paid job with a local mobile phone company as a sales rep. Working several jobs is nothing new to me as you all know but for a person to commit almost a full work week to help us succeed in our local projects is admirable.
Myself and Frank riding the Daladala. Frankie was laughing about the fact that these mini-buses were definitely not built for people my size.
You get feel of the impact Frank has on people very quickly as you walk through our neighbourhood (KilaKala) or even downtown Morogoro. Every corner you turn, there is another person smiling and yelling “Mambo Frankie.” He smiles at everyone he meets, and quite frankly, all the time. Even when we were at 6500ft above sea level, having climbed for six hours, in 30 degree heat, breathless, Frank was ahead of us smiling and singing to us to keep us motivated to continue. I think this is when Julie finally broke and asked him “do you ever not smile?!” Frankie automatically began to laugh and said “Of course I do…. Maybe once or twice per month?” If we can all learn one thing from this amazing young man is the power and influence a smile can have on your own well being but on others’ as well.
Frank helped us out with the Play Day for the Home Based Care children. The kids love his loud, dramatic personality.
Everyday you hear people complaining about their life or the people in it. We don’t appreciate what we have or the people in our lives as much as we should. How many times a day do we judge people? If we look at the world through Frank’s eyes, I truly believe that he sees everyone as equal. I am not innocent of this and everyday I spend with Frank, I grow and develop by recognizing my negative thoughts, assumptions, and stereotypes. To this day, I have yet to hear Frankie judge another person or complain about anything.
Thinking back to our climb to Bondwa peak, I remember when we were only one quarter of the way up the mountain (not very far) and we were in direct sunlight with a temperature over 30 degrees Celsius. We were sweating and breathless already. We came across a young boy pushing his bicycle up the dirt road carrying multiple bags of bread and other staples for his village. Instead of merely walking by, Frank got right in-behind him and helped push his bike and supplies to the top of the road without hesitation. That is when I realized I had met someone who was truly noble and selfless.
Even as we continued up the mountain and through the jungle, he knew I really wanted to see monkeys, so he climbed a tree and made the best monkey noises he could. Some people might see this as a goofy childish act but for me it further demonstrated his altruistic personality as he is always keeping others in his thoughts and making sure people around him share in his love of life.

Frank the monkey

I have only known Frank for four weeks but already I can see he will have a lasting impression on my life and those around him. His kind acts and genuine personality can be a lesson in selflessness for all of us.

Asante Sana Frankie!

2 comments:

Anonymous said…
Ben, to wake up to such a positive post changed the whole outlook on the day…
Merci xoxo
November 3, 2011 4:53 AM
Anonymous said…
Ben,Thank you for brightening my day…from so far away, you still have the ability to make me smile (and at the same time bring tears to my eyes!) Frank sounds amazing and I hope you do know that you have most of those qualities too!!! Except for the never complaining part, haha :) You have had a huge impact on everyone you meet to, I have first-hand knowledge of this! Great to see your smiling face peeking out from these wonderful photos, especially since it is so gloomy here today. Miss you, Lisa C. xo
November 3, 2011 9:50 AM

 

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Summer Camp in Sumter!

Our day camp at St. Anne School in Sumter begins a week from tomorrow.  There is still room in the camp and we’d love for your young actor to join us!

Theatre Arts Day Camp at St. Anne’s School in Sumter!

by Center Stage Youth Theatre of Columbia

To information on how to register call Amy Zalimas at 803-773-8006

Stellaluna – Theatre Arts Day Camp

Grades K-2, Limit 15 children (Rising Kindergarteners through rising 2nd grade)

Fee – $95.00

Monday – Friday – 9:00 – 11:30 am

June 14 – 25

Funny little Fruit Bat Stellaluna is separated from her mother and taken in by a mother bird and her nestlings.  Much comedy ensues as Stellaluna tries hard to learn to be a good baby bird.  Janelle Cannon’s beautiful book provides the script for our K-2 campers and we will spend the two weeks of mornings creating our own studio production of Stellaluna to be presented on the last day of camp to family and friends.  Children should come dressed in comfortable play clothes, bring a snack, a water bottle, a paint shirt and be ready for action!  We will cast, rehearse, design sets and costumes and learn about how much team work goes into the creation of a play.  For more information call Susan Scaccia at 206-4924 or email her at rssb1228@yahoo.com.

Treasure Island!  Theatre Arts Day Camp

Grades 3-8, limit 15 children (Rising 3rd through current 8th grade).

Fee – $95.00

Monday – Friday, 12:30 – 3:00

June 14 – 25

Treasure Island is certainly one of the most durable adventure stories of all time, with the villainous Long John Silver following young Jim across the ocean to search out a buried fortune on Treasure Island. Join us as we spend two weeks worth of afternoons creating our studio production of this famous story.  We will cast, rehearse, design and create costumes and sets and scenery, and then on our last day of camp present our production to friends and family.  Campers should bring a water bottle, a snack and a paint shirt, wear comfortable play clothes and come prepared to have fun, meet new friends and learn about the wonderful world of theatre!  For more information feel free to call Susan Scaccia at 206-4924 or email her at rssb1228@yahoo.com

Coaching Monologues

I spent some time this afternoon with a delightful young actor I had met when I first moved here.  She was a real standout, and I was very pleased and honored when she asked me to coach her on her monologues for her professional auditions later this month.

We chatted for a while (ok, at least an hour) and then we got to work.  It was so exciting to watch her go through the process of making the monologues part of her body and her soul.  She was very well prepared and very open to suggestion.  I especially liked the way she was able to take my suggestions and use what made sense to her as she developed her own meaning for the pieces.

I really enjoy monologue work.  There are only the words and the actor – no place to hide.  And the way the meaning of the piece begins to shine through as you work it and then suddenly - a big chunk of meaning will fall off and land in your lap! 

This young woman was especially beautiful to watch – it was quite moving to see the monologues become part of her.  I could see the transition – suddenly she would relax and you could feel her enjoying every word.  At one point I could see that she was doing everything I had asked her but it wasn’t working for her.  She looked unhappy and out of control.  I asked her then to put back some of what she had originally brought to the monologue and just use what I had suggested to flavor it and Voila! There she was again, as comfortable as could be.  It was quite wonderful.